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You're missing the point here. I've been searching for the quote, but he was slated as saying that he would keep in contact, and I was asked pre Cincinnati in the interview about him saying that. He's never done it at all. They were upset at me saying we were family, and what I did wasn't what family does to each other.
What family doesn't check in on sick family?
Shouldn't family keep promises?
Isn't him calling out last year's players airing family business too?
Open your eyes man. Those are only a few questions. He shouldn't be doing things like this.
If it's really family, you keep these things in house.
Keeping the lines of contact open doesn't necessarily mean he is going to be the one doing the contacting. Did you contact them after that? Not saying he did or didn't, but it sounds like you are trying to hold them to the standard that Duke set, which is going way above and beyond the call of duty.
Also, at no point did he mention Duke being one of the "me" guys on the team, nor did the various other current players who have made similar statements about players giving up. So I have no idea whether Duke is even one of those they were talking about.
As for "calling out last year's players....that is done by many coaches. I've seen direct quotes from Meyer, Saban, many others pointing out that there were elements in the team that were a problem to team chemistry, and stating that the team in a particular season is much better off chemistry-wise than the year before after some players moved on (Saban even used the "energy vampires" term to refer to some of those players). At no point were specific players named nor did they say that it was every player that left, but that there was a very real locker room problem and team chemistry problem with a subset of players is something that has been stated many times by players as well as the coaching staff.
Only Al's mother would dare to compare him to Saba and Urban -- unless you are talking about slimy. Those guys are explaining why a team lost one game instead of going undefeated or finished 5th one year. Golden has been throwing players under the bus since the K State game exposed his rancid defense and his boyfriend. Duke under the bus as early as the USF game to cover his lack of QB talent in his third year.
DHucks is speaking from personal experience while you seem to speak from an unnatural love affair with Al. I use to support him but the constant pitching of players under nearest bus drove me away. NOT ONCE has the man even implied that coaches needed to do better or find another job but he persist in blaming players and fans for all his failures. Open your eyes and see.
Exactly. I wanted to believe he was different than what he was being made out to be. I really, wholeheartedly wanted to. But, what happened to us, was exactly what he was made to be.
While the cameras were on and we were present, he was awesome. When we weren't there and cameras weren't on, he was a ghost.
After the VT game, nearly every staff member sought us out to tell us thanks for coming, and by us I mean my wife and I. I personally had to search for Golden. When I found him, he was on the bus. I was allowed to step on to say congrats and thanks for having us, but he just nodded his head, gave a half smile and went back to what he was doing. I found the exchange very, very odd. Now I find it fitting.
Guess he was blocking out the noise.
I hope your son is doing well.
While I do not care for the overall coaching performance of the team, the fact is you would not have had access to the players without Golden's consent. Don' t let your opinion be shaped by a bunch of miserable Internet posters. Making negative comments after you were given the opportunity to spend time with the team comes across as ungrateful. I am sure you are not. Sometimes perception is stronger than reality.
Your sons health and happiness is more important than our opinions or the wins and losses of a football team. I know many are pulling for him.
Blessings to you and your family.
You think I'm concerned with folks perception of me being ungrateful? At the expense of the truth?
He is what he is point blank. Access aside, it doesn't excuse what happened or what is happening. Dude is a straight "Me guy". Carter and our experience have nothing to do with that.
Dude talks family, he needs to walk with his talk. Something he hasn't done a lot of.




