Look, maybe she attacked him. Maybe he was defending himself. Do you need to defend yourself against an unarmed woman by hitting her multiple times, all over? If some little kid starts to hit you, does that make it ok to just swing on a ten year old? If the other person has a weapon and you’re actually in danger, do whatever you need to do to save yourself. If the other person is unarmed and significantly weaker than you, you should be able to handle the situation without beating the crap out of them. We need to normalize men reporting domestic violence. I’d your woman hits you, press charges because if you get drawn into a fist fight, it’s never going to look good for you. Unless you’re some huge ***** and your woman is an MMA fighter or some ****. Then run for your life.