So here's my best, "this is absolute bulls*** Notre Dame argument". Miami and Notre Dame will have played 5 similar games by the end of the season. The current results:
Notre Dame vs Miami: Miami wins head to head
NC State: Notre Dame 36-7, Miami 41-7
Syracuse: Notre Dame 70-7, Miami 38-10
Pitt: Notre Dame 37-15
Stanford: Miami 42-7
If Miami goes out and beats Pitt, let's say, 42-10 and Notre Dame beats Stanford 35-10 then that would mean Miami outperformed Notre Dame in 4 out of 5 comparable games, almost half the season. We also have a Notre Dame victory over Boise 28-7 and Miami crushed USF that beat Boise 34-7. There is PLENTY of crossover there, including a head to head matchup.
If Miami can go throttle Pitt then I think this shouldn't even be a discussion anymore. There is more than enough evidence.