Exactly.
It's time for people to be 100% real.
I don't care if Avantae is 15 years old and broke or 35 years old and retired from the NFL, he is dealing with a pregnant human being carrying HIS CHILD. It's not his first rodeo, he knows **** well that pregnant women get hormonal, they have physical pain, they have emotions that sometimes carry on even after the pregnancy (post-partum depression).
It doesn't matter if this woman was FACTUALLY INCORRECT about the perceptions of his infidelity, that is no reason to start asking someone in the third trimester of carrying HIS CHILD to suddenly lift a bunch of stuff in order to move out of his apartment in a matter of hours.
The bottom line is that he needs to have a cooler head in these situations, at least for a couple of months. If he wants HIS CHILD to be born healthy and happy, he needs to be able to navigate the emotions and hormones and all the other baggage that goes along with having multiple children before he can legally drink alcohol. He needs more guidance and structure and counseling, and he needs to listen to it and do what is necessary.
None of this completely excuses the woman, but 99% of the people who have been posting are men, many of whom resort to calling a woman "crazy" or a "liar" instead of acknowledging that being pregnant is a bizarre emotional and chemical experience. From a logical/objective standpoint, sure, maybe what she said/did was outside of the bounds of normal human interaction by a non-pregnant person. One could also argue that giving THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD a "get out by sundown" ultimatum is similarly unreasonable.
I stand by the University of Miami's decision. There are no clearcut "winners" here, just a few people that narrowly avoided disaster. Avantae has got to become a better person and a better father, not only for this child, but also for his other children. He has the chance to provide a life for himself and his children that they would not otherwise be able to enjoy. I, for one, will be praying for him to see a better pathway forward.