Experience has been the best teacher my entire life Rell. When I see something, hear something, feel something, smell something, taste something, it has a greater impact on my life personally and professionally.
I believe that's where a lot of the disconnect is between white people and black people - white people haven't "experienced" what black people have so it's difficult for whites to understand the trials and tribulations of blacks. That's not to say whites shouldn't try to understand but it goes back to my view of how experience is the best teacher. Not trying to make excuses, just trying to provide some perspective as to why I believe many whites don't understand the plight of blacks.
No matter ones skin color, I think we all have a tendency to stick close to our comfort zone although I do my best to not be an ostrich.