After giving a kid a scholarship, welcoming him into 'the family', is there a responsibility to help see him through the messiness associated with bad, even unlawful choices? Simmering below the surface is the fact unknown to many that this apparently was an at-risk take.
Seems at minimum a year long suspension is in order. If possible though, why not help him keep the academic side in order and possibly begin a path back to athletic eligibility. It's justifiable, in the most likely at-fault scenario, to simply choose to disassociate from someone in a case like this. But if so, don't use words like FAM.