I think the committee is making it clear they will not put us in over ND, but I think they're also making it clear they will put us in if we take care of business against Pitt and other outcomes go our way. It's insane given our H2H win over ND, but this is where we're at.
We need either LSU (Oklahoma), Miss St (Ole Miss), or Auburn (Bama) to pull an upset this week and we probably get the at-large spot out right before the conference championship games. Stanford keeping it close (or winning) against ND would also benefit us. Absent one of those outcomes, we'll need help in conference championship week.
The committee is probably expecting/praying that BYU loses to TT in the rematch, and Bama loses in the SEC Championship. In this scenario, BYU and Bama are out with no need for the committee to conduct a controversial comparison between us and ND in which ND somehow still gets in. A 3 loss Bama will not get in over a 2 loss Miami. They'd be the only 3 loss team in the field and the committee already proved last year they're willing to leave Bama out. A 2 loss BYU will most likely not get in over a 2 loss Miami since they would have just played a de facto playoff game against TT and lost. This scenario is the scenario I think the committee wants because it allows both us and ND to make the playoff (although really I think they just want us to lose to Pitt so they don't have to worry about it).
If none of these scenarios play out for us, the committee will be forced to decide between us, ND, (and assuming BYU/Bama win their conference) the losers of the B12/SEC championship game in the final rankings. Definitely not a scenario where I see them selecting us (ND may even be in trouble too). Should only one of Bama/BYU win their conference, then the committee would select between us, ND, and the other losing team. Either way we probably are first out.