Except that’s not what the NCAA is saying happened.
“The NCAA said Meier exchanged text messages with Ruiz saying that she would make sure the Cavinder twins knew who he was after HE tried to arrange a meeting with them before their official visit to campus last summer.”
Nope. You are wrong.
Here is what happened.
First, two "things" happened at roughly the same time. One is that the Cavinders were in the Portal and had an unofficial visit set up with Miami. Separately, UM had an event to introduce Dan and Mario to the UM community, and then included Jim and Katie in that event as well.
Second, Katie met John Ruiz FOR THE FIRST TIME at this Dan-Mario introductory event, and a communication began. The point of this is not to definitively establish "who initiated contact", but to point out that an ONGOING CONVERSATION arose. Which is exactly what happens at these events, at every college in the country.
Now, let's be VERY specific. The NCAA chose to word its findings in a particular way. To incite MAXIMUM conclusions of "bad things". Nefarious activity. Dark shadows that would give rise to the OBVIOUS CONCLUSION that what happened was clearly against the rules that the NCAA refused to clarify in advance.
Examples?
---Jim and Katie received "late invitations". WHY IS THAT IMPORTANT? Because after whiffing on its attempt to nail football, the NCAA is attempting to manufacture causality between what they DID FIND (a women's basketball violation) and the evil Miami NIL efforts that have clearly impacted football more than any other UM sport (there ARE more football players than basketball players, but I digress).
---The NCAA's language about the "true intent" of the event, whether it was a "university wide celebration" or a horrible event for "boosters and donors". There's a difference? Good lord, I've gone to B-School and Law School celebrations in which there was a hope (or expectation) that money would be donated. But to read the NCAA's language, they make it sound like poor poor Katie was tricked into coming to a booster/donor function that she had no intent to join otherwise.
---The "NIL guy" quote? What? I'm sure that's the ONLY thing Katie ever said about Mr. Ruiz, right? And I'm sure the NCAA only tightly quoted that phrase, completely out of context, in a good-hearted effort to be completely accurate and not-at-all-misleading, right? Give me a mother****ing break. Do you want to know how to spin something your way, while NOT misleading people? You provide THE WHOLE QUOTE, and then you put the key phrases in ALL CAPS or
bold or
BOTH. Unless, of course, the whole quote doesn't help the NCAA?
I could go on and on. And probably will in a separate post. But the fact remains, there is a pretty clear chain of events (regardless of how the NCAA tries to spin it into dark and evil behavior):
---Ruiz family attended a UM event they were invited to, and have conversations with coaches (permissible). They discuss some recruits with a coach (permissible), even though the NCAA attempts to make it sound horrible (how did the evil Ruiz family KNOW that the Cavinders were being recruited, they could not have possibly figured it out by reading websites, right?).
---Katie Meier DOES DUE DILIGENCE on the Ruiz family (as she SHOULD do in a post-Nevin-world-landscape).
---In the back-and-forth, John Ruiz indicates that on the abbreviated visit, which Katie was not even 100% involved in (due to other obligations), the Cavinder's NIL agent has indicated that the twins are ENTHUSIASTIC about talking with him, but have some time constraints.
---Now let's analyze two elements that you seem to think are so nefarious. (A) Katie Meier told John Ruiz that she would make sure the Cavinders "know who you are". But, as already established, the Cavinders already knew who John Ruiz was. So the issue of whether Katie's comments are just bluster is worth discussing. At no point is she setting up a meeting, discussing money, or doing a first introduction. So all she is doing FOR MILLIONAIRE TWINS WHO ALREADY HAVE MAJOR BUSINESS DEALINGS AND PROBABLY GET PHONE CALLS ALL THE TIME is saying "hey, I'll let them know that you are a businessman in South Florida, not just some rando looking to meet hot young girls". (B) Katie Meier then asks an assistant coach to let the Cavinder twins know that John Ruiz is a LEGITIMATE BUSINESSMAN. Which is true. So she's just vouching for him. "Yes, I've met the man, yes, he has a business that is about to go public, yes, he's not some creepy guy like you encounter at Penn State or Ohio State or Michigan State".
---So what's the NCAA's next brilliant conclusion? "As a result of the assistant coach's call, the prospects agreed to meet with the booster." REALLY? Who admitted this? Clearly, the Cavinders are saying otherwise. We have no idea whether the Cavinders even met with the NCAA. But, suddenly, the NCAA has created CAUSALITY. And for what? Because Katie and/or the assistant coach are conveying that John Ruiz is a legit businessperson? You know, since I heard NOTHING about how Katie arranged the meeting, or set the terms, or pushed a connection...
I'll wrap this up by focusing on a few key takeaways here.
First, the NCAA keeps talking about Katie Meier "making introductions". But, clearly, Mr. Ruiz had already made his own introductions BEFORE Katie (and/or her assistant) said a word. And what Katie (and/or her assistant) did was to VOUCH for Mr. Ruiz's legitimacy. It's like if Slingblade Billy Napier told Jaden Rashada "hey, you know that Collective that has been calling you nonstop, yeah, they are completely legit and have paid every NIL deal that they have promised to recruits". That's not an introduction, that's telling a recruit that THIS ONE is above-board and trustworthy.
Second, if the issue is Katie Meier (and/or her assistant) MAKING THE CALL, and not, you know, the SUBSTANCE of the call, then it's a technical violation. How the NCAA keeps turning the phone call into an "introduction" when no "introduction" was made, I have no idea. But, yeah, if the phone call is wrong JUST BECAUSE IT HAPPENED, then I guess there's no further discussion to be had.
Third, take note of the selective way that the NCAA tells its story. For instance, how Katie felt "uncomfortable" with the situation? Could it be that Katie thought it was WRONG? Of course! Because that's what the NCAA WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE. But could it be because NIL was BRAND-NEW and because Katie had never dealt with high-profile recruits who were ALREADY MILLIONAIRES, and that maybe she just wasn't accustomed to situations where women's sports could enjoy the same kind of attention and support and benefits that men's football and basketball had received FOR DECADES?
The point of all of this is simple. Words can be used in a very powerful way, to get you to pre-judge a situation, and maybe even your own conclusions. I am not trying to pull a Tucker Carlson and convince you that the Cavinders were just on a sightseeing tour of South Florida. But what I am trying to say is that the NCAA has cherry-picked its "quoted words" and conclusory language to convince the world that there was a causality between Katie (and/or her assistant coach) vouching for John Ruiz to a family that has probably already received more NIL overtures from unknown people than 99.9% of all other college athletes.
And it is RIDICULOUS for Miami fans to just swallow the NCAA bait hook-line-and-sinker and accept the NCAA's clearly biased characterization on its face value.