That is good for you. Honestly, that isn't sarcasm, but some people prefer that life style. It doesn't make them any more of a loser, imo. I see you feel different, but that is the nice thing about living in a free country. Odds are, I am sure quite a few of your skin head boys where very smart dudes and if they wanted to could have been very succesful in life. I know a lot of the ABs are very smart guys, who just got unlucky. I am in a similar boat to you, in that I was able to make it out of the hood, but I still go back and chill with my childhood buddies and relatives on a regular basis, so I can also see where Antonio is coming from.
