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Brooklyndee said:
Says the grown man with a avatar of a children's toy... Some people gravitate towards kids for different reasons and to call a dude a pedo for that alone is border line ****tard ish. Myself I hate people. I'm an animal person. People in large part are phony and only show themselves when it serves them a purpose. You know what people aren't like that? Children. Children haven't yet been tainted by society and if they have they atleast still have hope for something more. They're innocent to a society that destroys everything it contacts. Some people simply need to be reminding everything and everyone in life isn't part of this cess pool we exist in... Bruh be better than that as it's in you. Entertainment isn't that serious that you gotta make a comment like that about a dude just for the purpose of dialogue.
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Me nore you understands his triggers but when he said wanted to killed himself as a child I assumed he was molested as a child
 
bacane said:
Maybe we all should think about this before taking to our keyboards and twitter accounts trashing players and others.
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Given that it's being reported that 1 out of 4 people on earth have some form of clinical illness that would actually work best for all of us, everywhere. Motive is often hard to understand with these people and causes a lot of misunderstanding and hard feelings, and quickly. If we knew some of these people were in fact suffering from some type of emotional imbalances, how much easier would it be to qualify these people in our lives and simply move on? Truth is, it's like night and day difference. Turns out, getting the right motive is everything when it comes to empathy, forgiveness, and tolerance.
 
SinisterCane said:
Me nore you understands his triggers but when he said wanted to killed himself as a child I assumed he was molested as a child
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OR maybe he was beaten. Maybe his mother and father had a horrible abusive relationship. Maybe he just felt like he didn't belong OR maybe he simply has dealt with depression from a very young age. OR maybe you're right and he was molested. But even if that's the case and he was a victim to some sick fvck why do you gotta label the next man as a potential pedophile himself....... Words have value brother. Be better than that. **** on here is simply a message board. It's not real. a pedo on the other hand even being labeled one is VERY REAL.
 
Mental illness is a disease, like diabetes, or psoriasis, or anything else you can think of. It can have both biological/chemical and psychogenic components.

There still is not a lot that’s not understood about the interaction between biology/chemistry and exogenous triggers, and about the genesis of these diseases sometimes, but the point is, it’s a disease.

There’s no need to be ashamed or embarrassed. There is a need for greater understanding and treatment.

In addition, one of the worst and most common situations is mental disease in adolescence, including college age. Not just depression, or bipolar disease, but even schizophrenia many times rear their ugly heads in that age group.

Again, think of it as a disease, not a character failing.

These people aren’t “soft“, they have an illness.
 
Not many Buckeyes I'd hug, definitely would give this guy one. Really great interview, hope he continues to get the help he needs.
 
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Brooklyndee said:
OR maybe he was beaten. Maybe his mother and father had a horrible abusive relationship. Maybe he just felt like he didn't belong OR maybe he simply has dealt with depression from a very young age. OR maybe you're right and he was molested. But even if that's the case and he was a victim to some sick fvck why do you gotta label the next man as a potential pedophile himself....... Words have value brother. Be better than that. **** on here is simply a message board. It's not real. a pedo on the other hand even being labeled one is VERY REAL.
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Yes. Not to single this kid out but this is common through some type of abuse or trauma

Two years ago I finally spoke up about trying to commit suicide as a teenager. Didn’t talk about it for 25 years and held it in. Led to lots of issues

Anyone even suggesting “pedo” should just sit it out next time. Absurd tone deaf comments
 
JHallCanes said:
Yes. Not to single this kid out but this is common through some type of abuse or trauma

Two years ago I finally spoke up about trying to commit suicide as a teenager. Didn’t talk about it for 25 years and held it in. Led to lots of issues

Anyone even suggesting “pedo” should just sit it out next time. Absurd tone deaf comments
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Many kids do experience abuse and trauma that can lead to metal disease/issues. But many kids have had quite sedate and normal upbringing, have had good parenting and good homes, and still experience mental disease.

Fortunately, you’ve been able to overcome the obstacles you faced as a youth. Good luck and good health to you.
 
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JHallCanes said:
Yes. Not to single this kid out but this is common through some type of abuse or trauma

Two years ago I finally spoke up about trying to commit suicide as a teenager. Didn’t talk about it for 25 years and held it in. Led to lots of issues

Anyone even suggesting “pedo” should just sit it out next time. Absurd tone deaf comments
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Love u buddy, glad you're here.
 
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Brooklyndee said:
People could never comprehend the demons we all fight on different levels. Most of us pick up sports as a way to deflect. A way to discover something more... But this is a bi-product of success as it is failure. This kid seems like an amazing person and I'll be rooting for him. He clearly has a far bigger calling then sports and I hope this is his light. That's one thing I'll always love about lashlee is he truly cared about the boys under him. As you said, no need to mention names. I'll be praying for that boy to get through and keep fighting his demons. It's important as fans that people realize this isn't always bright lights especially when those lights burn.
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This is where my **** went rock bottom, I loved ball, I loved going on the road with teammates, practice, winning or losing it was something that kept me up most of the time. Once I had to slow down and step away from sports like football and snowboarding due to my concussion history I was unable to find that positive thing in my life that kept me going. And with the pride I had I refused to sit and ask for help, it took a mini intervention from my moms to be like "don't end up like your cousin and aunt".
 
Am I the only person to notice that Ohio State and Kansas State have the exact same uniform but in different colorways?
 
JHallCanes said:
Yes. Not to single this kid out but this is common through some type of abuse or trauma

Two years ago I finally spoke up about trying to commit suicide as a teenager. Didn’t talk about it for 25 years and held it in. Led to lots of issues

Anyone even suggesting “pedo” should just sit it out next time. Absurd tone deaf comments
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Glad you were able to work through it brother. As I'm sure your now agree that silence at that point which seems natural only leads to a far greater struggle.
 
Nickkcin said:
This is where my **** went rock bottom, I loved ball, I loved going on the road with teammates, practice, winning or losing it was something that kept me up most of the time. Once I had to slow down and step away from sports like football and snowboarding due to my concussion history I was unable to find that positive thing in my life that kept me going. And with the pride I had I refused to sit and ask for help, it took a mini intervention from my moms to be like "don't end up like your cousin and aunt".
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Never be ashamed to talk brother. Keep fighting the good fight and from experience I'd say work your hardest to find a passion or two. There's life beyond sports or anything else as long as you're open to it.
 
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