Ok, here's what I've come up with based on the conversations with
@hoops156 and
@SWFLHurricane.
My wife and I have this ongoing conversation about our kids and how to handle them. I'm a dad so I can be a little fire and brimstone at times. I think I'm hard but fair, but who can say? She points out to me that they're kids and learning how to be in the world whereas I'm an adult. Therefore it's my job to meet them where they are so that I can help them. She's not wrong. I still think they need to learn that the world won't give a f*ck about them so sometimes you have to conform or harden the f*ck up. But, again, she's not wrong. Sometimes they need me to change where I'm coming from so they can better hear and understand my message. So now that those few who have read this far know way too much about me and my family...on to coaching.
Coaching is very much parenting. They want different things from their players at times than I want from my kids but it's the same dynamic. I see our coaches, past and present, struggling to find the balance between "do it my way" and "what would work for you?". If they change plays so TVD feels more comfortable, will other players start demanding the same? If they insist players conform to their system will they comply or will there be rebellion? They feel they see farther than players and want to realize their vision. If they bend now, will it keep them from realizing that vision?
I agree that the best thing is to work with the players we have as opposed to asking our guys to be who they are not. I'm honestly mystified as to how they're getting good play out of both lines, but not the WRs. I would have thought the WR group was more talented, but they don't seem to be able to perform, and both lines can. There are a lot of moving pieces here, and I don't know the answers. I'm hoping our staff does.