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You see there is this thing called shifting focus, I remember reading about how Dennis Rodman would go out partying drinking, doing drugs. But he never let it affect his game on the court, I said that to say this, some people just can't separate the sectors in life as good as others, they let certain things in life overlap with others. So instead thinking about what you should be focusing on at the moment, you're focused on what's going on in the outside world, and in the real world it's really hard to separate that, I served in the military so I went through it as well having to separate the party/Civilian life from Military life the thing about me is I had someone as a mentor that kept me on track and told me when I was F'ing up, everyone is not the same, some people are not as mentally tough as others so they may need a mentor or someone more mature to help keep them on the right track. It's ok to have a good time but you have to know when to turn it on or off.