On behalf of anyone who has ever lost someone in a car accident, please shut your mouths unless it is 100% respectful.
I lost a brother in a car accident almost 20 years ago. Most people kept their messages short and to the point - “I’m sorry for your loss.” Anything else quickly becomes the person speaking out of their ******; usually with disregard for the actual feelings of those who lost a loved one. One person actually told my mother “at least you have other kids…” like it was a consolation prize. There were a couple others, but that’s enough. If I have to explain this more or you don’t get it, I feel bad for you. If you’ve ever heard a mother wail at her child’s funeral, you know what I mean.
We don’t need internet crime sleuths, comparative photo evidence, speed experts, legal advice/explaining, theories and guesses. Yes, it’s a message board, so I get to a point that people are processing this as they go, but cmon. Show some common decency. If you’re unsure, say little to nothing. This is CiS, not CSI Miami. It’s Mother’s day today. If you’re lucky enough to still have moms kicking around, make sure you tell her you love her. There’s one mother today who won’t have a good day because lost two of her children.