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We lost a great Cane on Sunday Morning

OrangeBowlMagic said:
Unfortunately, on Sunday morning, my old man passed away at the age of 79 years young. No word yet on whether the Lofton catch/no-catch is ultimately what did him in, but we're digging into it.

Seriously though, he was in declining health for a while, and didn't even watch the game on Saturday, as he was nearing the end of his life. But I wanted to post this here just as a reminder to think big picture, even for just a few seconds, and appreciate what you have, and what we have.

My dad was a MASSIVE Canes fan. He taught me everything I know about life, and ball (he coached me from the time I was 6 until I started HS football), and ensured that I was well versed in everything Miami Hurricanes football. We went to countless games together, he was a season-ticket holder for a long time at the Orange Bowl, and Hard Rock. As a matter of fact, my handle on here is 100% derived from him. There were many times we left the OB after an incredible comeback, or missed FG (or two, hello 2000 and 2002 vs FSU), and he'd just shrug and look at me and say "Orange Bowl Magic, baby". For probably 30 years, we spoke before, at halftime, and after every single game that we weren't together to attend or watch. It was a tradition. We had a pretty close relationship overall (I have 3 older brothers, so obviously I didn't get every ounce of his attention all the time), but what really solidified it was the love and support of this program. It was absolutely the thing that we both loved the most, and loved about each other the most. The bond this program and this sport brought us.

I didn't want to post this for sympathy or condolences, although I'm sure some of you will offer them, and I will VERY sincerely and humbly accept. But more importantly, I wanted to post this because we just lost a hard-fought football game, and some of us are moping around and kicking the dog and telling each other we're not that good, and we're gonna lose again, etc. And maybe that's true. But, just for a minute, please, do me a personal favor and take one minute of your life to think about everything that drew you to this program. The bonds you've created, with family, or friends, that are solidified by Miami Hurricanes Football. Maybe someone who introduced you to this roller coaster, a lifelong friend you've made simply because you and someone else support the Orange and Green, and some of the memories you've made with people over the years. Yes, we're in the middle of a very important and potentially historical season. But stop and think big picture for just a moment, think about and appreciate everything and everyone you've made your memories with over the years, and just appreciate how absolutely insane it that we all share the passion and love and emotional insanity that this team sometimes brings. If you do that, I couldn't think of anything more fitting to honor my pop, because that man LOVED his Miami Hurricanes. It'll be very emotional for me the rest of this season, knowing I'm there or I'm watching on TV, and he's not. But I'll always be indebted to him, because without him, I wouldn't be wrapped up with the rest of you lunatics on this board and the thousands of people I met and smiled at and gave high-fives too in South Bend this weekend, and over the last 30+ years. This is a family, and I owe him everything for bringing me into it.

Oh, and if you're lucky enough to have your mom or dad in your life, give them a call today. Even if it's for a minute. Don't text, call, and whether or not they have any clue about anything Miami football, just tell them you love them.

Rest easy, Bobby. And, as always, it's ALL About The U. Go Canes.
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Sorry for your loss bruh, keep your head up
 
Rest in peace, praying for you and your family. That the grace of Jesus Christ would overwhelm you all. Lost my dad 20 years ago, he made me a cane, was the only reason I kept up with the team for years, and is now the reason I’ve bonded with my son over sports.

Thank you for honoring yours today.
 
**** guys, I've read every single word all of you have written and really took each syllable to heart. Thank you all so much for taking the time to say something nice, it's truly uplifting to know that, as dysfunctional as we are often on here, emotional, demanding, moping, slurping, etc....we all do share one common passion, at least, and there are genuinely good folks out there. Seriously humbling, as authentically as I can say that.

Saturday will be rough as **** for your boy, but for those of you who still have people you care about who love this team like you do, whether it be a parent, child, **** even just talking to people on this board, reach out and make a point to let them know you care and you appreciate the bond you share with them..

The last thing I wanted to do was make this a pity party, I must say "nobody cares, work harder" about 5 times a day, but at a time like this it's seriously cool to hear words from other people about their own experiences and relationships. Thank you guys more than you know for just helping a dude out.
 
My condolences to you and your family, brother. You can be 20 years old or 60+ years old; but there ain’t ever gonna be a stage in life where the loss of someone impactful isn’t going to hurt. Perspective is fundamentally key, and it seems that you have yours more than in check.
All that will be left of us one day is how we are remembered by those in our lives; and while I wish I could say that the passage of time makes loss feel “easier”…I can definitely say that time truly makes those memories even more appreciated and important than they already were before (which I believe you are very well aware of already)

I lost my dad back in 2012. He wasn’t really a CFB fan at all; but with us being in a Notre dame/michigan centric area in NY (somehow), he’d always joke with me about I ended up being a Miami fan despite all odds…and he always liked to call Vinny Testiverde “Vinny ********s” lol.
 
My condolences brother. We win # 6 in his honor
College Football GIF by Miami Hurricanes
 
OrangeBowlMagic said:
Unfortunately, on Sunday morning, my old man passed away at the age of 79 years young. No word yet on whether the Lofton catch/no-catch is ultimately what did him in, but we're digging into it.

Seriously though, he was in declining health for a while, and didn't even watch the game on Saturday, as he was nearing the end of his life. But I wanted to post this here just as a reminder to think big picture, even for just a few seconds, and appreciate what you have, and what we have.

My dad was a MASSIVE Canes fan. He taught me everything I know about life, and ball (he coached me from the time I was 6 until I started HS football), and ensured that I was well versed in everything Miami Hurricanes football. We went to countless games together, he was a season-ticket holder for a long time at the Orange Bowl, and Hard Rock. As a matter of fact, my handle on here is 100% derived from him. There were many times we left the OB after an incredible comeback, or missed FG (or two, hello 2000 and 2002 vs FSU), and he'd just shrug and look at me and say "Orange Bowl Magic, baby". For probably 30 years, we spoke before, at halftime, and after every single game that we weren't together to attend or watch. It was a tradition. We had a pretty close relationship overall (I have 3 older brothers, so obviously I didn't get every ounce of his attention all the time), but what really solidified it was the love and support of this program. It was absolutely the thing that we both loved the most, and loved about each other the most. The bond this program and this sport brought us.

I didn't want to post this for sympathy or condolences, although I'm sure some of you will offer them, and I will VERY sincerely and humbly accept. But more importantly, I wanted to post this because we just lost a hard-fought football game, and some of us are moping around and kicking the dog and telling each other we're not that good, and we're gonna lose again, etc. And maybe that's true. But, just for a minute, please, do me a personal favor and take one minute of your life to think about everything that drew you to this program. The bonds you've created, with family, or friends, that are solidified by Miami Hurricanes Football. Maybe someone who introduced you to this roller coaster, a lifelong friend you've made simply because you and someone else support the Orange and Green, and some of the memories you've made with people over the years. Yes, we're in the middle of a very important and potentially historical season. But stop and think big picture for just a moment, think about and appreciate everything and everyone you've made your memories with over the years, and just appreciate how absolutely insane it that we all share the passion and love and emotional insanity that this team sometimes brings. If you do that, I couldn't think of anything more fitting to honor my pop, because that man LOVED his Miami Hurricanes. It'll be very emotional for me the rest of this season, knowing I'm there or I'm watching on TV, and he's not. But I'll always be indebted to him, because without him, I wouldn't be wrapped up with the rest of you lunatics on this board and the thousands of people I met and smiled at and gave high-fives too in South Bend this weekend, and over the last 30+ years. This is a family, and I owe him everything for bringing me into it.

Oh, and if you're lucky enough to have your mom or dad in your life, give them a call today. Even if it's for a minute. Don't text, call, and whether or not they have any clue about anything Miami football, just tell them you love them.

Rest easy, Bobby. And, as always, it's ALL About The U. Go Canes.
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Yo yo OBM, sorry for your loss, brother. As per usual, a super well-written post.

Your pops must have gone in such peace knowing he raised some solid dudes. I'm sure you're hurting, brother, but it sounds like your pops was a real one, and that you guys got to share such an amazing sports fandom together.

Those memories will live forever in your heart and soul. While you share a tear or two, don't forget to share all the laughter and joy he brought to you all while he was here.

RIP Bobby.

PS: You know he's going to put in a good word for #6!
 
OrangeBowlMagic said:
Unfortunately, on Sunday morning, my old man passed away at the age of 79 years young. No word yet on whether the Lofton catch/no-catch is ultimately what did him in, but we're digging into it.

Seriously though, he was in declining health for a while, and didn't even watch the game on Saturday, as he was nearing the end of his life. But I wanted to post this here just as a reminder to think big picture, even for just a few seconds, and appreciate what you have, and what we have.

My dad was a MASSIVE Canes fan. He taught me everything I know about life, and ball (he coached me from the time I was 6 until I started HS football), and ensured that I was well versed in everything Miami Hurricanes football. We went to countless games together, he was a season-ticket holder for a long time at the Orange Bowl, and Hard Rock. As a matter of fact, my handle on here is 100% derived from him. There were many times we left the OB after an incredible comeback, or missed FG (or two, hello 2000 and 2002 vs FSU), and he'd just shrug and look at me and say "Orange Bowl Magic, baby". For probably 30 years, we spoke before, at halftime, and after every single game that we weren't together to attend or watch. It was a tradition. We had a pretty close relationship overall (I have 3 older brothers, so obviously I didn't get every ounce of his attention all the time), but what really solidified it was the love and support of this program. It was absolutely the thing that we both loved the most, and loved about each other the most. The bond this program and this sport brought us.

I didn't want to post this for sympathy or condolences, although I'm sure some of you will offer them, and I will VERY sincerely and humbly accept. But more importantly, I wanted to post this because we just lost a hard-fought football game, and some of us are moping around and kicking the dog and telling each other we're not that good, and we're gonna lose again, etc. And maybe that's true. But, just for a minute, please, do me a personal favor and take one minute of your life to think about everything that drew you to this program. The bonds you've created, with family, or friends, that are solidified by Miami Hurricanes Football. Maybe someone who introduced you to this roller coaster, a lifelong friend you've made simply because you and someone else support the Orange and Green, and some of the memories you've made with people over the years. Yes, we're in the middle of a very important and potentially historical season. But stop and think big picture for just a moment, think about and appreciate everything and everyone you've made your memories with over the years, and just appreciate how absolutely insane it that we all share the passion and love and emotional insanity that this team sometimes brings. If you do that, I couldn't think of anything more fitting to honor my pop, because that man LOVED his Miami Hurricanes. It'll be very emotional for me the rest of this season, knowing I'm there or I'm watching on TV, and he's not. But I'll always be indebted to him, because without him, I wouldn't be wrapped up with the rest of you lunatics on this board and the thousands of people I met and smiled at and gave high-fives too in South Bend this weekend, and over the last 30+ years. This is a family, and I owe him everything for bringing me into it.

Oh, and if you're lucky enough to have your mom or dad in your life, give them a call today. Even if it's for a minute. Don't text, call, and whether or not they have any clue about anything Miami football, just tell them you love them.

Rest easy, Bobby. And, as always, it's ALL About The U. Go Canes.
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My condolences and thank you for the beautiful reminder of my parents who both loved our Canes.
We grew up going to games since the late 70’s and the memories we have our innumerable.
Rest easy Bobby - I am sure you were greeted with a GO CANES by so many!
 
OrangeBowlMagic said:
Unfortunately, on Sunday morning, my old man passed away at the age of 79 years young. No word yet on whether the Lofton catch/no-catch is ultimately what did him in, but we're digging into it.

Seriously though, he was in declining health for a while, and didn't even watch the game on Saturday, as he was nearing the end of his life. But I wanted to post this here just as a reminder to think big picture, even for just a few seconds, and appreciate what you have, and what we have.

My dad was a MASSIVE Canes fan. He taught me everything I know about life, and ball (he coached me from the time I was 6 until I started HS football), and ensured that I was well versed in everything Miami Hurricanes football. We went to countless games together, he was a season-ticket holder for a long time at the Orange Bowl, and Hard Rock. As a matter of fact, my handle on here is 100% derived from him. There were many times we left the OB after an incredible comeback, or missed FG (or two, hello 2000 and 2002 vs FSU), and he'd just shrug and look at me and say "Orange Bowl Magic, baby". For probably 30 years, we spoke before, at halftime, and after every single game that we weren't together to attend or watch. It was a tradition. We had a pretty close relationship overall (I have 3 older brothers, so obviously I didn't get every ounce of his attention all the time), but what really solidified it was the love and support of this program. It was absolutely the thing that we both loved the most, and loved about each other the most. The bond this program and this sport brought us.

I didn't want to post this for sympathy or condolences, although I'm sure some of you will offer them, and I will VERY sincerely and humbly accept. But more importantly, I wanted to post this because we just lost a hard-fought football game, and some of us are moping around and kicking the dog and telling each other we're not that good, and we're gonna lose again, etc. And maybe that's true. But, just for a minute, please, do me a personal favor and take one minute of your life to think about everything that drew you to this program. The bonds you've created, with family, or friends, that are solidified by Miami Hurricanes Football. Maybe someone who introduced you to this roller coaster, a lifelong friend you've made simply because you and someone else support the Orange and Green, and some of the memories you've made with people over the years. Yes, we're in the middle of a very important and potentially historical season. But stop and think big picture for just a moment, think about and appreciate everything and everyone you've made your memories with over the years, and just appreciate how absolutely insane it that we all share the passion and love and emotional insanity that this team sometimes brings. If you do that, I couldn't think of anything more fitting to honor my pop, because that man LOVED his Miami Hurricanes. It'll be very emotional for me the rest of this season, knowing I'm there or I'm watching on TV, and he's not. But I'll always be indebted to him, because without him, I wouldn't be wrapped up with the rest of you lunatics on this board and the thousands of people I met and smiled at and gave high-fives too in South Bend this weekend, and over the last 30+ years. This is a family, and I owe him everything for bringing me into it.

Oh, and if you're lucky enough to have your mom or dad in your life, give them a call today. Even if it's for a minute. Don't text, call, and whether or not they have any clue about anything Miami football, just tell them you love them.

Rest easy, Bobby. And, as always, it's ALL About The U. Go Canes.
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Sorry for your loss brother!

I’m glad that you got to spend so much quality time with your pops! As we find out as we get older, life sure is short.

I’m happy for the both of you because you got to enjoy what time you had together. I hope those beautiful memories will be able to be shared with your family for many generations and beyond.

May he cross over peacefully and rest easy until you get to meet with him again on the other side!

One more time for you and your pops!

LET’S GO CANES!!
 
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