Parental support, or lack thereof, is the biggest indicator of a student's success -academically, socially, emotionally, athletically, we can do this all day.
I am inclined to believe that it is a bigger factor than socioeconomics, but America aint ready for that conversation.
I almost got fired for talking about this story at work.
I got pulled to the side and threatened.
This is 100% factual.
I was taking biochemistry at fiu during a short summer term.
Class started on a Wednesday.
The professor began by saying that this was 4 credit class with a 3 credit lab in a semester that was 3 weeks shorter.
He added that the drop date was Friday and he knew a lot of us needed to perform well for either medical school or allied health degrees.
He stated that there would at least one test and one quiz per week.
Now this was the 90’s and we weren’t so politically correct and could actually speak our minds.
Monday’s class started and he said
“I see we have a few drops and honestly not as much as I thought”
“I want everyone in here that was raised in a 2 parent home to raise theirs hands up”
Everyone had their hands up except 2 kids. There was at least 50-60 students in there.
Now, I was older than most of the class after serving four years. But those four years made me a little wiser. I automatically knew where he was headed, but also knew that he had a huge set of balls to actually say what he was about to say.
“Don’t let anyone tell you that 2 parents in the home doesn’t matter”
He walked over to the side where both of them were and said “you guys are the exception and I commend you for being here”
I’ve been in medicine since 2004 and I can tell you that the number of medical residents that come from a single parent home are outnumbered by those from 2 parent homes by a huge margin.