I can't believe this is even a thread, honestly. There is NO circumstance, EVER, no matter what, no matter the situation, NO MATTER WHAT that you should ever "DM" a college athlete if you're a fan. None. There are literally 0.00000 instances where this is OK. And frankly, I'm 37 so maybe I can almost kinda-sorta see this if you're in your early 20's (but not really)....but frankly it's incredibly creepy for a grown man to be private messaging kids on social media. I'd be so ashamed of myself if I did something like this, and I'd be beyond embarrassed as a father if any of my kids grew up and didn't have the respect or really common decency to let kids be kids and did some nonsense like this.
I couldn't even be cool with someone who did this, that's how weird and creepy it is.