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OT: Wife just brought up Find my Friends app

Bird4um said:
I let her have it...... Said No I don't want to track you. You are an adult. I will open this app 0.0 times to find you... And so on.... " You have something to hide?" I said no again and yelled at her...... But at the end I said I will put in on my phone...

"Never mind... I trust you.... I thought it would be cool."

We will see how this progresses or her attitude changes...
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You're already caught my man.
 
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g8rh8rMD said:
This is worst case scenario, bro. If you've truly been doing nothing wrong and she's acting all suspicious like this, either she's been stepping out, or she's losing her mind and getting crazy paranoid. Start protecting yourself now. Give all your money and assets to your brother, father, mother. Talk about getting some counseling if you love her and want to save the relationship. Unfortunately, she's at risk of turning on you, whether you like it or not and whether you've done anything wrong or not.

Be careful, and I hope it all works out for the best.
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Yes, same thing happened to me. But I didn't move the assets, and am now restarting at 31. If you have no children get out now, marriage is a dirty, awful, trap. Social Media and smart phones have exposed women for what they always are and have been. We just weren't listening...Listen to the lyrics of the Faces' Ooo La La you know "I wish, that I knew what I know now...when I was younger"
 
Tweed said:
I just hate to hear people speak negative energy into the this man’s life like that. “What if” she legit just wants everyone to be accounted for and safe? Every time something seems a little bit suspect, it doesn’t always have to turn out into the worst case scenario. And please don’t take that as if I were saying you are dumb personally, I just think that entire idea of worst-case scenario is dumb. Not just in this scenario, but in every scenario. I trust everyone I’m close to, until they give me a reason not to. That’s just the way I operate. Again, no disrespect on my part.
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Excellent point Tweed, but I think that most of us are assuming the worst, bc even OP was so taken aback by it; he wanted to discuss it here.
 
rokulika said:
Thought these OP threads would die off once the season started.

About to take my talents to TOS
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OP has never brought up to significant other two or three stories about psycho molester dudes hacking someones phone for pictures and who knows what else? "Not sure I want some crazy knowing your exact location if my phone is hacked...DEAR."
 
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Wash140in60 said:
Yes, same thing happened to me. But I didn't move the assets, and am now restarting at 31. If you have no children get out now, marriage is a dirty, awful, trap. Social Media and smart phones have exposed women for what they always are and have been. We just weren't listening...Listen to the lyrics of the Faces' Ooo La La you know "I wish, that I knew what I know now...when I was younger"
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Sorry to hear that, man. There are good ones out there. Regardless of whether you decide to settle down again, better days are ahead. I simply can’t imagine going through something like that.
 
SigmundFriend said:
May I suggest to honor your wife and to love her like Christ loves the church. The Scripture says that the marriage of a husband and wife resembles that of Christ and his church. Hence, "husbands, love your wives like Christ loves the Church".

Praying for you, my dude.
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Christ and his church.... The scriptures says...

Might as well 4efernce the Easter Bunny and the tooth fairy while you're at it
 
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g8rh8rMD said:
This is worst case scenario, bro. If you've truly been doing nothing wrong and she's acting all suspicious like this, either she's been stepping out, or she's losing her mind and getting crazy paranoid. Start protecting yourself now. Give all your money and assets to your brother, father, mother. Talk about getting some counseling if you love her and want to save the relationship. Unfortunately, she's at risk of turning on you, whether you like it or not and whether you've done anything wrong or not.

Be careful, and I hope it all works out for the best.
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Great advice...for her to pull that 1...she has that guilty concious and its just gonna fluster.
She is definately coming..Your reaction likely is only gonna make it worse.
 
Potential Uses: Find lost phones, Safety if either of you go to sketch places/camping or end up missing for some reason, Easier to check when the other is on the way home instead of texting/calling all the time.

There are plenty of reasons to have a tracking app, and this is definitely something where if you trust each other you can easily argue to have it (reasons above, and you know you wouldn't cheat or something) or not to have it (don't need to track eachother to know your not cheating).

Probably comes down to whether you GF is someone that would be checking it constantly or not. If she is I'd probably say that's a no-go, cause she'd probably also read into everything like a crazy person as well... If she'd rarely use it, it's probably fine.
 
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