Great question. Idk the answers to all this stuff. I know we all grew up differently. And that reality for people is very different depending on where you live at.
The Hood, the trailer parks , the mansions, the middle class. We all live different realities. It’s usually very difficult for a person from one of those groups to understand or relate to the others from a different environment unless they came from that.
Put yourself in 8 year old inner city kids shoes for just a second, where danger is around every corner.
Rapist, Robbers, Killers, Pimps, Dealers, Gangs, Drugs And fiends all run rampant. You just want to simply walk to the store and buy some chips in peace.
You’re trying to live your life on the straight and narrow. Just living to 18 is a big accomplishment for you...... want to go to college.
On your walk to the store, your paranoid. Lots of drive bys in your community, so you watching every car that passes you closely. Get to the store and the robbers rob you at gunpoint for your little $20.
Now you gotta walk back to the house. It’s some dudes from a neighborhood that hates your neighborhood approach you ask where you from. They jump you 6 vs 1. Now you got knots and bruises and face a little bloody.
Your not a street guy or a tough guy. Just a kid trying to live like everyone else.
Finally get back to your block and some deranged fiend stabs you hoping that you’ve got some extra money so he can get a fix.
If you are this 8 year old kid what are you to do?
1. Your neighborhood arms dealer is around? You go try to rake leaves, Mow peoples yard, shovel snow in hopes you can make enough to buy a piece?
2. The gang in your neighborhood is recruiting you at that age. Offering protection where you don’t have to get jumped anymore, beat on, they got guns, and ways for you to earn money. And you get the “family” aspect by having 100+ other gang members who all are willing to do whatever. Do you join?
3. Do you hope and pray you make it to 18? Going to church with mom on Sundays. Trying to play sports to avoid all the ****. Practice keeps you out the neighborhood more?
4. Some other choice?
Curious what you guys on this board think or would do if you are that child?