I don't agree with that at all. Bill o'Brien was rightfully ripped for lying to recruits on Saturday morning then accepting the Texans job hours later. Golden is doing the right thing staying silent. If he stays, all it takes is a simple phone call to his recruits. If he leaves, he still has his integrity.
At this point i am sure both he and PSU are mulling over their options. In 24 hours, it will probably be over. Stay patient. I hope he stays but agrees to make changes to his staff (may be wishful thinking and probably is)