I lost a brother in a car accident many years ago. Aside from the pain, one of the more surprising and memorable (not in a good way) things I experienced was the complete lack of tact that some people had. There were a few people that I suspect wanted to read the police report and coroner’s report as their questions lacked any boundaries. There was another person that cornered me and told me all about how blessed I was that he died in an accident, not suicide like her family member (that was a 15 minute cringe session). Another woman told my parents “well at least you still have other kids.”
Some people are stupid. Some people are selfish. Some are both. Luckily, some are neither or at least know when to stfu. This story with Rueben is just another train wreck tv story. Así es.
Very relevant, and painful, observations there.
I'm pointing out, there are a lot of relevant questions we can ask ourselves about what we know, don't know, and wish we knew about this situation.
And then there is the ESPN/Herald approach, where they ignore the nuances and merely talk about how CITATIONS WERE ISSUED and how SOMEONE DIED, without ever reflecting on the overall situation.
If there were 5 people in the car, that means there were 4 survivors too. Perhaps, given the totality of all the known facts, it's not such a good idea to focus the news article on citations written by a cop who didn't witness the accident. Even if the news article is accurate in the few facts that it does report.
When you OMIT certain factual details from an article, it allows assumptions and implications.