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Y'all better flood the Hecht with Butch support phone calls if that's who you want! The next coach needs more incoming fan support than any in recent memory.Point is, let the admin know who you want!
Y'all better flood the Hecht with Butch support phone calls if that's who you want! The next coach needs more incoming fan support than any in recent memory.Point is, let the admin know who you want!
Y'all better flood the Hecht with Butch support phone calls if that's who you want! The next coach needs more incoming fan support than any in recent memory.Point is, let the admin know who you want!
If Butch comes back, it going to be easier to get a ticket to a Green Bay Packers game than a Miami Hurricanes game. The whole college football world knows we want Butch, and they are dreading the possibility of it.
Y'all better flood the Hecht with Butch support phone calls if that's who you want! The next coach needs more incoming fan support than any in recent memory.Point is, let the admin know who you want!
If Butch comes back, it going to be easier to get a ticket to a Green Bay Packers game than a Miami Hurricanes game. The whole college football world knows we want Butch, and they are dreading the possibility of it.
Every FSU guy I know wants no part of Miami rehiring Butch Davis.
There are many reasons why Butch makes sense. But the biggest one to me is that if he got the job, he ain't going anywhere! This would be Butch's last gig as a HC! He's not leaving unless fired or death.
Patterson, Schiano, even MC. They would be out of here in 3-4 years top and we'd be looking for a new HC all over again.
Golden isn't leaving.
Golden isn't leaving.
Nope.
Y'all do what you want because I know how you feel. But I'm moving on to the acceptance stage in grieving for the death of Miami.
Golden isn't leaving.
Nope.
Y'all do what you want because I know how you feel. But I'm moving on to the acceptance stage in grieving for the death of Miami.
SHOCK & DENIAL-You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain. Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This may last for weeks.
PAIN & GUILT-As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable pain. Although excruciating and almost unbearable, it is important that you experience the pain fully, and not hide it, avoid it or escape from it with alcohol or drugs. You may have guilty feelings or remorse over things you did or didn't do with your loved one. Life feels chaotic and scary during this phase.
ANGER & BARGAINING-Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted blame for the death on someone else. Please try to control this, as permanent damage to your relationships may result. This is a time for the release of bottled up emotion. You may rail against fate, questioning "Why me?" You may also try to bargain in vain with the powers that be for a way out of your despair ("I will never drink again if you just bring him back")
"DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS-Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you. This is a normal stage of grief, so do not be "talked out of it" by well-meaning outsiders. Encouragement from others is not helpful to you during this stage of grieving. During this time, you finally realize the true magnitude of your loss, and it depresses you. You may isolate yourself on purpose, reflect on things you did with your lost one, and focus on memories of the past. You may sense feelings of emptiness or despair.
THE UPWARD TURN-As you start to adjust to life without your dear one, your life becomes a little calmer and more organized. Your physical symptoms lessen, and your "depression" begins to lift slightly.
RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH-As you become more functional, your mind starts working again, and you will find yourself seeking realistic solutions to problems posed by life without your loved one. You will start to work on practical and financial problems and reconstructing yourself and your life without him or her.
ACCEPTANCE & HOPE-During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to accept and deal with the reality of your situation. Acceptance does not necessarily mean instant happiness. Given the pain and turmoil you have experienced, you can never return to the carefree, untroubled YOU that existed before this tragedy. But you will find a way forward. You will start to look forward and actually plan things for the future. Eventually, you will be able to think about your lost loved one without pain; sadness, yes, but the wrenching pain will be gone. You will once again anticipate some good times to come, and yes, even find joy again in the experience of living.
You have made it through the 7 stages of grief.
Most of CIS is still in stage 1 or 2. But then again, CIS is always slow to react to everything.Golden isn't leaving.
Nope.
Y'all do what you want because I know how you feel. But I'm moving on to the acceptance stage in grieving for the death of Miami.
SHOCK & DENIAL-You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain. Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This may last for weeks.
PAIN & GUILT-As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable pain. Although excruciating and almost unbearable, it is important that you experience the pain fully, and not hide it, avoid it or escape from it with alcohol or drugs. You may have guilty feelings or remorse over things you did or didn't do with your loved one. Life feels chaotic and scary during this phase.
ANGER & BARGAINING-Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted blame for the death on someone else. Please try to control this, as permanent damage to your relationships may result. This is a time for the release of bottled up emotion. You may rail against fate, questioning "Why me?" You may also try to bargain in vain with the powers that be for a way out of your despair ("I will never drink again if you just bring him back")
"DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS-Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you. This is a normal stage of grief, so do not be "talked out of it" by well-meaning outsiders. Encouragement from others is not helpful to you during this stage of grieving. During this time, you finally realize the true magnitude of your loss, and it depresses you. You may isolate yourself on purpose, reflect on things you did with your lost one, and focus on memories of the past. You may sense feelings of emptiness or despair.
THE UPWARD TURN-As you start to adjust to life without your dear one, your life becomes a little calmer and more organized. Your physical symptoms lessen, and your "depression" begins to lift slightly.
RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH-As you become more functional, your mind starts working again, and you will find yourself seeking realistic solutions to problems posed by life without your loved one. You will start to work on practical and financial problems and reconstructing yourself and your life without him or her.
ACCEPTANCE & HOPE-During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to accept and deal with the reality of your situation. Acceptance does not necessarily mean instant happiness. Given the pain and turmoil you have experienced, you can never return to the carefree, untroubled YOU that existed before this tragedy. But you will find a way forward. You will start to look forward and actually plan things for the future. Eventually, you will be able to think about your lost loved one without pain; sadness, yes, but the wrenching pain will be gone. You will once again anticipate some good times to come, and yes, even find joy again in the experience of living.
You have made it through the 7 stages of grief.
Y'all better flood the Hecht with Butch support phone calls if that's who you want! The next coach needs more incoming fan support than any in recent memory.Point is, let the admin know who you want!
If Butch comes back, it going to be easier to get a ticket to a Green Bay Packers game than a Miami Hurricanes game. The whole college football world knows we want Butch, and they are dreading the possibility of it.
Every FSU guy I know wants no part of Miami rehiring Butch Davis.
There are many reasons why Butch makes sense. But the biggest one to me is that if he got the job, he ain't going anywhere! This would be Butch's last gig as a HC! He's not leaving unless fired or death.
Patterson, Schiano, even MC. They would be out of here in 3-4 years top and we'd be looking for a new HC all over again.
There are many reasons why Butch makes sense. But the biggest one to me is that if he got the job, he ain't going anywhere! This would be Butch's last gig as a HC! He's not leaving unless fired or death.
Patterson, Schiano, even MC. They would be out of here in 3-4 years top and we'd be looking for a new HC all over again.
Schiano would probably be a lifer, he's pretty much coached himself out of any shot of the NFL again as a head coach. I'd assume the same thing for Chud too.
Cristobal already showed once that he was a snake looking for the next gig, I wouldn't even want him to interview.