Problem is most kids of today aren't afraid - they know adults can't touch them and are more arrogant and defiant than any generation before because of it.
You don't have to be a former player to be tough or a respected hardass. You just have to carry yourself a certain way and set a tone of how you want others to see you. Respect is earned, not given. Toughness and strength are earned by actions, not words.
BINGO.
Manny knows what it is supposed to look like on paper.
He knows how to say the right things.
But then you get punched in the mouth and you show the world what is really on the inside.
That is how and why Manny lost the team.
UF was a toss up and games like UNC can happen on the road. But the Central Michigan debacle was all we needed to see.
When Urban, Dabo, and Saban face adversity, they usually LIVID at the teams’ underperformance. When have we seen Manny indignant and challenging his team’s bullshyt. Those moments happen for almost every team.
Manny be on the sideline looking like a 1st grader that just got his lunch money taken by a 6th grader and there are no teachers around to save him. Gonna be a hungry school day.
Modern kids are a bunch of Similac babies mostly raised by women that cater to them. You can’t bullshyt them with incompetence and smooth talking.
A truly confident, masculine leader is more important than it has ever been. Many of these guys have never been held accountable by a masculine man and you will lose some of them. That is ok because the ones who are left will have a leader they can believe in and trust, who will push them out of their comfort zone and make them the best they can be. They will rise because they won’t want to bear the consequences of failing this guy.
It is HUMAN NATURE. Miami hasn’t had a self aware, confident coach for a long time. We need to do a better job finding them before they become unaffordable.
But with the stories of what is going on at the Hecht and the fact we turned away guys like Mullen and Butch, it makes it appear all these phony, try hard, insecure coaches are being hired intentionally by design.