You know what's funny, is we didn't play the ND game any different than we played any other game all year. It's crazy to go back and think about how it played out. It's incredibly consistent to how the entire season has gone.
To your original point, I think it's a good one. I'm usually a "just win" guy, but I do think there's validity to what you're saying. To be clear, I still don't think a bigger win against ND would've vaulted us above them. They're 3 spots ahead, and we do have a head-to-head win, so would let's say a 10 point win do anything? Probably not. But it is a valid question.
But on the whole "playing not to lose" thing....look at this:
We go up 21-7 after playing the middle 8 perfectly. Long drive to start the 3rd quarter, we score halfway through, it's a 2-score game.
We get a 3 and out. Now it's time to pile on.
Run for 6.
Pass for 3.
It's 3rd and 1....anyone have any guesses on what we're gonna do??
Yayyyyyy, it's heavy personnel run, Marty slips (there wasn't much there anyway), and we punt.
We did this ALL **** YEAR. Short-yardage, just run into a pile of humanity and hope you get 2 yards. This was very much a harbinger for things to come.
But OK, we punt, and ND gets a TD. Now it's 21-14.
Fletcher run for 6 on 1st down. Holding call. Where have I seen this before???? It's literally a microcosm of the entire season. Now it's 2nd and 14, we get a pass for 7, it's 3rd and 7, we get sacked. A good play on 1st down, and then a drive is totally torpedoed by a penalty. Think we'll see that ever again going forward?? Nahhh, probably just a one-off LOL.
But wait, we get a pick! It's 1st and 10 on their 28, and we're up 7, about 5 minutes into the 4th quarter.
Fletcher run for 6. OK.
Fletcher run for 1. Now I'm sad.
3rd and 3, what do we do? Fletcher run for 1. I'm gonna throw up.
We did this every goddamned game for the first 9 games of the year.
Field goal, go up 10, they hit a 65 yard pass on the first play of their drive, and now you're in a dogfight. No blowout, let's just hold on and try to win the game.
It's insane to me how this game played out exactly how the rest of them did. Zero creativity in short yardage. Zero tendency breakers. Penalties killing drives. At the time, we all said (me included) "Well, it's Game 1 for Beck. It was raining. That's a really good team, you just do what you need to in order to get a win." But the staff never adjusted once from that game. We did the same exact **** in the same exact situations for the next 3 months. We continued to get awful, backbreaking, drive-killing penalties to totally torpedo drives. Just maddening to go back and play that game over in your mind and realize, holy ****, we really thought we could just play the exact same way over and over and over again and it wouldn't bite us in the ***.