Man, I've lived and worked/commuted in lot of places and that's a tough question to answer because so much depends on your age, your station in life and your personal preferences. I've lived in some of the larger cities which I enjoyed a lot more when I was younger. Today, my preferences are good weather, I prefer mild seasons (I like the change), don't like big city congestion (been there, done that). I like areas where taxes and cost of living are reasonable, but where there's enough to do (entertainment, outdoor activities, near water and good food). If I have that, I'm good. Fav places to live were San Diego and Orange Co., CA - but that was years ago before people lost their effen minds. It was Paradise years ago. Today, no thanks (unless someone else is paying). Good luck finding your paradise bro. If it's So Fla or Chicago, I'm going with the warmth. Suffered through too many winters.