Guess it is in eye of the beholder. He could very easily overwhelm her even in cuffs. That thought is always on her mind, which is what leads to abusive situations, in my opinion. Or maybe she is just a biotch :ibis-roflmao-sm3:
Agreed, my point is women are more likely to use excessive force out of fear which is why she shouldn't be in that position. You see it as abuse, I see it as a fear of knowing she has limited abilities and is at the mercy of a man complying.