Poppa Shaq, your family should know that the vast majority of fans are positive, optimistic and respectful. When we win, those fans are the ones who post and show you and your son love. When we lose, usually those fans, myself included, stay away from the boards because we need time to process the loss and don't want to say anything bad. ... And we're truned off by all the negativity that rears its head.
But that opens the door to the small minority of fans (and several obvious trolls) who come on here and bash everything and everyone. These are two very distinct groups. The Quartermans are beloved by the first group no matter what. The other group goes whichever way the wind blows. But that's life, not just these boards. Pro team fans are 10x worse when their team shocks on the downside.
Wish you would stay and contribute even if it's only when we win and you feel you can say nice things that aren't controversial. We need adults in the room!