No problem. Didn't mean to be preaching. I get this vibe from him that his goal is to get you on the defensive. When he does he plays this I'm a bigger person than you schtick. Reeks of low self-esteem.
You fell into his trap. That guys motive is to be an agitator. No need to explain yourself. Feeds into his Napoleon complex. Your a cool cat. Keep drinking and keep posting. One Love...
Go Canes.....