My reply wasn't in direct response to you, but more rhetorically against the accused and the accuser.
I'm just not ready to render him guilty of 'sexual harrassment' and sentence him without more facts. That's a very serious accusation IMO.
Two adults talking about current spouses and divorce? Oh what for pray tell? Lol. This was NOT just a professional relationship, no way they were not already intimate.
I mean, beings she was there in an advocacy roll speaking at the university etc, and given her history it's very bad-optics for the University. But I understand their position. But given the details we know of so far it sounds pretty suss.
Lol. This is HER side of the story? I mean, F the uber-dumbass Mel Tugger and MSt; but I wont be surprised if/when further texts etc will come out about an inappropriate, but consensual relationship of some sort - even if its virtual.